Hard to Decide?

Do you think it's hard to decide? Hard to decide which one of two newspapers you usually buy, or
what to have for dinner unless you stick to a steady routine like some do. Or, do you simple find a lot of decisions hard to decide? You may be one of those who have a lot of interests, you don't want to loose any perspective, you wantt as much as possible since you are interested in it, since you are interested in not only one thing but two, or even more. And most of the times you find, and realize, that you end up being stuck in time just because you cannot decide. What a waste of time right?

So, what to do about it? As far as I know, you should first, and look here..., decide that you want to change. Change into being able to make faster decisions. To affirm that. If you feel, that you cannot make such a decision, you then have to put the decision focus in an earlier niveau, that is, you then have to decide, that you want to be able to want to change yourself. If you want this, it will lead you forward until you make this change even spontaneously.

Why do we have to make decisions? Making decisions may be hard but yet so crucial. Instead of loosing time you will gaining time that leads somewhere. Somewhere you want.


What to do then?

Ok, so what to do with such a change-capability? Well, unless you really feel you are satisfied with your life, you know what you want to change. Even if you cannot describe want you want
you should have some clues, some keywords. Something about you, your profile, your niche.
Start looking for people who share your interests and views. Begin somewhere. When you put out your keywords, you get inspirational thoughts in return. Go to google and write some of the keywords that match you and this can be done in several ways. You may feel you have two or three major interests, that's ok. Not 5, or 10. Then you have to get back to the decision level.

And then what to look for?

Again, you should have that answer. If you find that your first decision doesn't feel right, well then you have to try out the second. Once you do, you have performed decisions. And once you feel that something feels ok, and really feels ok, why change? Hold on to that, get into it and explore. If for any reason you will feel again that no, that too wasn´t right, well then look up next thing.

"I have tried, but I don´t find what is my thing, I feel lost..."

If you feel lost, you are less lost than before. That would be a positive side of it. Yes you feel lost about the first things you looked up but afterall, you made a work. You have to work again, get into
thinking again, and feeling, what you want to do. In time, how would you not get to know more about things and yourself? Doing changes like this may take not only days or weeks but infact, months and for some people years. And for some of you who read this, if years have gone, you could think that now is now, forget about the boring years that have just passed. Lets just forget about it a bit now, there may come moments later on to reflect upon. Sometimes bitterness is powerful and keep you in slow habits and not always so good relations with other people. Just as you want to encourage yourself, think of others around you who you think also deserve a better way of living, or who already do so, and to consider what they can actually do for you. Sometimes we have to reconsider some of our relations. We don't have to be suddenly over-proud etc against other people, maybe just a bit more careful. Being careful, meaning not suspiously, but careful about thinking about not only how you treat yourself or how you "let" others treat you, but how you treat others. Don't be afraid to say hi and hello to people, you will see the return.
Find something to decide, for you, your life, your family, your children, your friends, all that is you and around you that you value.

Motivational Thoughts

Motivational thoughts, yes how good it sounds. But do you feel any motivation to think so?
I have learned (though have a lot more to do yet), and maybe you can and will to, that if you don´t feel the drive to think .. motivations, start to think that you want to be able to do it. That you will start to do it. I think all other tips etc that is meant to be right now don´t work in regards of immediate results. It takes time.
When you decide to start to want it, it makes you think about whether or not you really want that... what ever it is. Maybe you find out something else. Well then.. one step to another. I think also, it's not only, or maybe not at all about what you want to do, it's about letting your will come through. Because, if you don´t know what you want to do, that circumstance shouldn't stop from taking you further. It's ok not to know. Maybe noone else has given you any suggestion so youre self confidense have been or is too low. Then again, you need to get into wanting to know.

So, motivation is about wanting to knwo what you will do. Well, something like that.

The most important though, again, if you don´t feel the drive to think what you want to do, to think in motivational thoughts, you just have to start to think that you want to be able to do it. It will kind of, out itself as seeds in your mind, and only put there by you. Besides that, be gentle, be cool. To others, and you.